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Including Your Dog in Your Proposal: A Thoughtful Look at the Pros and Cons

Your dog isn’t just part of the house like a lamp or the fridge — they’re part of your relationship (call it a “thruple”). They are there on all of your walks, quiet evenings on the couch, and everything in between. So it’s no surprise that more people are choosing to include their dog in one of the biggest moments of their lives: the proposal.

Over the years, we’ve photographed proposals where dogs played a central role — sometimes wearing bandanas with messages like “Marry Me?” or “Mom and Dad Got Engaged,” and other times simply showing up as themselves. Your pup adds a layer of personality that makes your proposal even more unique.

Why Couples Choose to Include Their Dog

When a dog is part of a proposal, the moment often feels instantly familiar and grounded. It reflects real life — not a staged version of it. They too are jumping around for joy, and not quite sure what is going on. Some of the reasons to include your dog:

  • The dog is already part of your daily routine, making the proposal feel natural - “Let’s take Sparky for a walk in Central Park, it’s such a nice day and meet friends”.

  • Dogs add genuine, unscripted reactions that can’t be planned.

  • The photos feel personal in a way that’s hard to replicate.

In many cases, your dog acts as a bridge — something familiar that gently guides the moment into something unexpected. When the timing and environment are right, it can turn a proposal into something that feels uniquely yours.

The Practical Challenges to Consider

As meaningful as it can be, including a dog also adds an element you can’t fully control — and that’s not always a bad thing, but it’s important to be realistic.

Some considerations to keep in mind:

  • Dogs don’t follow scripts — excitement, distraction, or nerves can shift the moment

  • Busy or unfamiliar environments can overwhelm some pets

  • A dog may require another person nearby to help manage leashes or attention - We can hold your pup and photograph! Don’t worry about it. WE LOVE DOGS!!!!

The key is understanding your dog’s personality. A calm, people-friendly dog in a familiar setting is very different from a high-energy dog in a crowded location. When these pieces are in place, the dog becomes part of the story rather than the focus of it.

A Personal Choice, Not a Requirement

Including a dog in a proposal isn’t about doing something trendy — it’s about reflecting the life you share. For some couples, it adds warmth and authenticity. For others, keeping the moment between two people feels more honest. Both choices are valid.

The most memorable proposals aren’t defined by who’s there or what’s included, but by how true the moment feels to the couple experiencing it.

This proposal is a good example of how including a dog can feel natural and personal.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

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Sam's Private NYC Proposal

Where to propose in NYC with a rooftop view of Manhattan?

If you’re looking to propose without a crowd and have an unobstructed view, a rooftop proposal is the way to go. Your options include reserving The Edge in Hudson Yards or The Empire State Building, all of which we have captured, or you could talk to one of the many hotels throughout the city. Just ask us where is the best rooftop to propose!

The Proposal Plan: Sam and Eli were going to brunch on the rooftop of the William Vale Hotel in Williamsburg Brooklyn.

Venue: The William Vale Hotel - Williamsburg Brooklyn

How we plan and photograph surprise proposals.

We aways make sure to arrive 30 minutes early to ensure we are there before you! We also require a point of contact from the venue or rooftop be present. Most importantly you need to supply us with the point of contact’s information in advance.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.

Justin's Private SoHo Rooftop Proposal

When it comes to proposing in New York City, the setting can transform a beautiful moment into an unforgettable one. Justin chose the penthouse deck of the Soho Grand Hotel in SoHo—a location that combines exclusivity, skyline views, and the charm of one of NYC's most iconic neighborhoods.

Why the Soho Grand Hotel Rooftop is Ideal for Proposals

  • Exclusive & Intimate Setting: The penthouse deck offers a private space away from the city's hustle, ensuring an intimate experience.

  • Stunning City Views: Overlooking SoHo's cobblestone streets and the Manhattan skyline, the backdrop is both romantic and cinematic.

  • Versatile Ambiance: Whether it's a sunset proposal or an evening under the stars, the rooftop adapts to various moods and themes.

  • Proximity to SoHo's Charm: After the proposal, couples can enjoy a stroll through SoHo's art galleries, boutique shops, and renowned eateries.

Capturing the Moment

Arriving early allowed me to familiarize myself with the rooftop's layout and lighting conditions. As Justin led his partner to the deck, the city lights illuminated the scene, creating a magical atmosphere. The proposal was heartfelt, with the skyline serving as a breathtaking backdrop.Post-proposal, we took advantage of the golden hour to capture candid moments and portraits, ensuring every emotion was beautifully documented.

If you're envisioning a proposal that combines luxury, intimacy, and the allure of New York City, the Soho Grand Hotel's rooftop offers an unparalleled setting. Let's work together to craft a moment that you and your partner will cherish forever.

Jonathan Heisler Photography is comprised of New York City photographers specializing in photographing private NYC proposals, as well as engagement sessions and weddings.